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Marriage Transforms Your Life,

Relationships and Perspective. 

From Romance to
Unresolved Conflict

Conflict Continuum

It may take some conscious thought, but intimacy can be a part of everyday marriage. You may want to grab your spouse’s hand while walking in the store, for example, or opt to linger in a kiss a few moments longer than you normally would. Consider going out of your way to physically touch one another throughout the day and bring cuddling back into the relationship. This may or may not produce immediate “butterflies” the way it might have when you first met, but it can bring you closer physically and emotionally.

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When it comes to the bedroom, there may be many ways to spice things up. You could try redecorating your room, lighting candles, playing music, or even splurging on lingerie. Still, intimacy may be one of those places in a relationship where communication is king. It can be beneficial to remember that both partners should feel confident speaking up for what they want (or don’t want) in their love life.

Keep it real!

Maintenance is the best medicine; keeping your marriage in good, stable condition through a few regular activities will maintain your marriage, whereas negligence can lead to eventual disaster. Checking in periodically, identifying issues as they arise, and solving structural problems before they get out of hand are the ways to maintain the stability of the covenant union that is your relationship. Likewise, the importance of communication cannot be overstated when it comes to maintenance.

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How do you know if you're in a challenging relationship with unresolved issues? Your answers to these questions will trigger many thoughts as to the state and status of your relationship. We pray that your answers will create a spirit in you to resolve the unresolved. Resolving the unresolved isn’t an overnight process. Find a healthy someone to walk with you as you rediscover the path back home.

  • When you're with the person, do you usually feel content, even energized?     Or do you often feel unfulfilled and drained?

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  • After you spend time with him or her, do you usually feel better or worse about yourself?

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  • Do you feel physically and or emotionally safe with this person, or do you ever feel threatened or in danger?

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  • Is there a fairly equal "give and take," or do you feel like you're always giving and he or she is always taking?

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  • Is the relationship characterized by feelings of security and contentment or drama and angst?

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  • Do you feel like he or she is happy with who you are, or do you feel like you have to change to make him or her happy?

May Our God continue to Bless each of us as we continue to work on our relationship with our spouse because it reflects our relationship with Him.

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